Queen Camilla’s Calm Amid the Storm: How the Queen Consort Handles Prince Harry and Meghan’s Royal ‘Attacks’

Queen Camilla has long been King Charles’ steadfast confidant—his right hand through decades of public scrutiny, private heartbreak, and most recently, the tumultuous fallout with Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. As the royal family faces one of its most public rifts in modern history, the Queen Consort’s approach stands out for its pragmatism and restraint.

A Loyal Partner Through Turbulent Times

For years, Camilla has quietly supported her husband, standing by him during the loss of his parents, the late Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip, and weathering the storm of his fractured relationship with his youngest son, Harry. But the challenges grew more intense after Harry and Meghan’s explosive 2021 interview with Oprah Winfrey, and the subsequent release of Harry’s memoir, Spare, in which he made pointed claims about Camilla’s role in the royal family.

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“Staying Out of It”: Camilla’s Quiet Strength

Despite the personal nature of the allegations, insiders say Queen Camilla has chosen to “stay out of it” when it comes to the ongoing rift with the Duke and Duchess of Sussex. According to a royal source in July 2025, Camilla refrains from engaging in the public drama, focusing instead on her duties and her unwavering support for Charles.

This practical approach is in stark contrast to the emotional turmoil that has gripped other members of the royal family. While King Charles and Prince Harry reportedly take tentative steps toward reconciliation, Camilla maintains a dignified distance, neither fueling the fire nor attempting to mediate.

A Complicated Relationship

Prince Harry’s relationship with Camilla has always been complex. In his memoir, Harry revealed mixed feelings about his father’s marriage, admitting that he and Prince William once pleaded with Charles not to wed Camilla. He also accused her of leaking stories to the press to protect her own image—a claim he reiterated during a high-profile interview with Good Morning America.

Despite these accusations, Harry clarified that he does not see Camilla as an “evil stepmother.” Instead, he described their interactions as “perfectly pleasant,” acknowledging her efforts to rehabilitate her reputation and carve out her place within the institution.

No Forgiveness?

While Camilla publicly remains above the fray, royal commentators suggest she may find it difficult to forgive Harry and Meghan for the pain caused to Charles. In 2021, royal expert Camilla Tominey reported that the then Duchess of Cornwall was deeply hurt by the couple’s media “attacks,” and insiders doubted she would ever fully forgive Meghan for what she perceived as an affront to the Prince of Wales.

Charles, too, has reportedly struggled with the fallout, particularly after Harry’s televised plea for his father to speak to him amidst the king’s battle with cancer. The emotional strain was evident when Harry lamented, “I don’t know how much longer my father has,” highlighting the urgency for reconciliation.

Hope for a Fragile Truce

Despite the lingering tensions, there are signs of hope. Recent reports of a “secret peace summit” between senior aides suggest that both sides are taking cautious steps toward mending the broken bond. For Camilla, however, her role remains clear: to stand by her husband, uphold her responsibilities, and avoid being drawn into the public spectacle.